Dilemmas of mind…

We are all living in this external reality where we just do our daily things and think of it as we are living our life everyday. But you need to question yourself. Are you really living your life? Do you feel present every moment? Are you able to enjoy all the little things happening around you. Let it be the warm sun touching your face in a cold winter or the smell of pure air that you breathe in or the cold breeze swooshing through your face. Let it be any small thing that goes unnoticed while you think of all the other things happening in your life. Of course I’m not saying that the things happening in your life are of less importance. Everything has its own importance depending on the perspective of a person. It all depends on how a person sees a particular thing. Let it be.

Let’s talk about you now. I am sure you might be having problems of your own to be sorted out, situations to be handled and feelings to be shared. We all have those. It’s a never ending part of life. I want you to think of all those moments when you felt helpless, tired, stucked at some place not being able to move forward from your own things. The time when you even questioned why should you even care to live like this. I know its difficult to go through all of them again as you probably don’t even want to think of ’em. But I suggest you do, and let’s analyse it once and for all.

All of us have been created equally. No one has any special powers. The only thing that makes each and every one of us special is our mind. The most powerful tool given by the creator to determine the uniqueness of a person. Of course everyone is unique in some or other sense. But the one thing common to everyone is the mind. Now, every mind generates numerous amount of different thoughts at the same time. And the thoughts manifest into the reality. To put it in simple words, all the things you think happened or is happening to you are all simple manifestations of your own thoughts. For example, let’s say, when you think about what others will think, you are generating thoughts that have a possibility of happening. The others you are prefering are totally unaware of these thoughts. But you my friend, you are considering the possibilities and going in depth in it. At the end it is just a mere possibility like everything else. So why would you want to create some thing that you don’t want to happen? Instead, you can go for the things you really want to manifest. The more thoughts you generate on a particular possibility, the more chances of manifesting it. So, choose your thoughts wisely.

Lemme tell you what these thoughts do to you. People have different opinion regarding the connection between the mind and your heart. I believe that everything is connected with one energy and that energy is your soul. A feeling cannot be generated in your heart unless until a thought has been created in your mind. Feelings generate as thoughts manifest. Once the feelings have been generated it’s really difficult to control them by your own. Basically speaking, all your feelings and emotions are controlled by your soul itself. The only thing that’s in your control is your mind and your thoughts. Nobody wants to live a life full of mysery, sadness, pain or lonliness or call it whatever you are feeling right now. People are always busy blaming others for the way they feel. But remember, it’s not these people who generated the feelings in you. You did it by yourself. So what’s the point in blaming others for it.

All these feelings in your heart roots up from the dilemmas of your mind. I like to call ’em dilemmas because most of the time, we get caught in between our own thoughts making it difficult for us to choose and thereby leading to unnecessary feelings in our heart. Feelings that has the potential to change a person internally. A person once changed can never be the same again unless he gets in control of it. Now that you know how things actually take place in your life, you can be the one on the driving seat by choosing your thoughts wisely. Instead of letting things happen to you, you decide what you want to happen so that you don’t have to go through all that you have already been through.


I hope you find this post useful and worthy of implying it in your lives to make some difference in it. We all go through the same shit everyday with no change. I mean, are we ever going to be better than this? 

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37 thoughts on “Dilemmas of mind…”

  1. People are always busy blaming others for the way they feel. But remember, itโ€™s not these people who generated the feelings in you. You did it by yourself. So whatโ€™s the point in blaming others for it.
    I totally loved this point! Because it’s so true! Such a thoughtful post! I could really feel you saying all this to me, and filling me with your wisdom! Thanks for sharing a great post! ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  2. “all the things you think happened or is happening to you are all simple manifestations of your own thoughts.”
    This is so true. At times you tend to overthink about certain possibilities to such an extinct that it feels almost real but in reality, it is all in your head.
    Love the way you have put all of this together. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  3. โ€œall the things you think happened or is happening to you are all simple manifestations of your own thoughts. โ€
    This such a thought provoking piece. Sometimes we tend to overthink about certain possibilities to such an extinct that we feel as if they are real but actually, it is all in our heads.
    Love the way you have put it all together. I can definitely learn a thing or two ๐Ÿ™‚

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